our awesome life
I love to reflect on the year past. Am I on track as it pertains to my goals? What worked, what didn't work, what do I need to change and/or adjustment. It never occurred to me that I may have been using the incorrect measuring stick.
Unbeknownst to me our first Christmas together revealing our love for each other would be a tipping point.. How awkward could that have been if the other didn't feel the same? DOH! lol!
So, I thought it a fun exercise list some of the pros and cons to confirm my gut feelings.
PROS: I love you; You love me; You are beautiful; You are an amazing mother; You are very smart; You are a thinker; Our core values align; We have an unwavering mutual respect; We support the other on every level; We travel awesome together; You make me a better man; You ground me; You are my drinking buddy; We love spending time together; We love to share new experiences; We are a power couple; My weaknesses are your strengths; We want for nothing; We belong together.
CONS: We can not have babies. We make others jealous.
Looks like we will need to learn how to live with the cons :)
Cheers to our AMAZING life!!!
I love you with all my 'heart and soul' my Kandi Cain.
Relationship
I have always thought "If I would have had a strong woman in my life who truly loved me, we could have accomplished anything." I recently realized a problem with this statement. The word 'would'. I don't live in the past.
Career
This year brought changes in my life that by any measure would have been devastating to most. The decision to step down and away from a company I founded and built. I thought it defined who I am. Come to find out it was simply a hiding place I found familiar, needed and safe..
Heart
My heart has always been guarded and untrusting throughout my life. My goal this year was let go of what I think I know and explore what I do not.. I never realized my thirst for love, nor could I have imagine my heart and head being aligned. I feel safe. I feel loved. I feel happy. I feel we can accomplish anything together.